Friends are worth celebrating...
Did you know that there is actually a recognized "holiday" for celebrating friendship?
I recently stumbled across this information and couldn't wait to share it here!
You can learn more at Friendshipday.org:
http://www.friendshipday.org/when-is-friendship-day.html
Who's bringing the ice cream for the celebration? :-)
Friendship is crucial to an enhanced quality of life. Good ones are sacred.
And when it comes to our "writer" friends? They keep us motivated. They serve as our cheerleaders.
They understand our creative trials and tribulations. We laugh together. We cry together. We share ideas and leads. We persevere and pray together.
As such, today's post addresses the 5 Friends
Every Writer Should Have
As solitary
professionals, writers don't often have the luxury of cultivating (and
maintaining) workplace friendships like those in the corporate arena.
Other than the mailman and the folks we meet and
greet at the local coffee shop, we're on
our own. True?
There are no "water cooler" conversations, juicy office
gossip, or gripes with a bad boss that binds us. Of course, we do have social
media that allows us to connect and share "Tweets" with our "peeps"; but it's
not quite the same.
You, "my friend," need to have friends beyond the
virtual world. You need to have a support system of solid people of whom you can
rely. And no, your pet Fido doesn't count. :-)
Here are five
folks I believe every serious writer should add to their V.I.P.
list, for a more enriching experience and more successful career.
See if you
agree.
1.
THE TECH GUY
Of all my professional
challenges, I am most stumped by technology. Hacks, attacks, and things that go
whack! Oh my! Lucky for me that I was blessed to meet a guy some years ago that
has provided some serious on-site assistance-- with software installation, virus
attacks, and general maintenance. He's a true life saver. Which brings to
mind, a while back ago, when my laptop went out on me in the middle of a very
important (and lucrative) client's project and he provided a "loaner" at the
last minute. Thanks, Emmanuel!
2.
THE LOCAL
LIBRARIAN
My friend Deb is bright, helpful and resourceful. If I
need reliable statistics for a proposal I'm pitching, she'll either provide the
research, or steer me in the right direction. She recommends good reads, and is
always well informed about things going on in the literary community.
3.
THE CONSUMMATE "CHEERLEADER"
You've gotten a rejection
letter from an editor that really cut you to the core. Or you're working hard,
but seem to be going nowhere. Or a client pink-slips you. Who do you call? No, not ghost busters!
For me, it's typically my friend, "Red". As a creative artist too, she sometimes
knows my pain and understands my struggles. She reminds me of all I've
accomplished. She also has a good sense of humor, which allows me to "lighten
up" when needed.
4.
THE "DO I LOOK FAT IN THESE JEANS?"
FRIEND
When you can't really be objective about your work and need
someone to provide a reality check, this individual helps you keep your head on
straight, and keep your wits about you. Accepting the "honors" for this award is
my mom.
5.
THE CREDENTIALED EXPERT
Every writer
knows that a good quote provides extra "oomph" and greater credibility to
feature pieces and interviews. The problem? Many times credentialed go-to gurus
are busy with their own projects, or you may feel intimidated to reach out to
them. I'm so fortunate to have noted authors like Noelle Sterne, Wendy Burt and
William July, (and more folks than I can mention here) to go to. I greatly
appreciate their time, wisdom and expertise.
In closing, I'd like to thank each of you for your virtual "friendship" and ongoing support here at Pen & Prosper. Without you, it wouldn't be worth it. :-)
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